Years ago, comedian Bill Mahar took a
fair amount of heat for saying—and refusing to apologize for
saying—stereotypes have a basis in fact. Society didn't just up and
decide one group drank to excess, another was reluctant to spend
money, a third exhibited inadequate driving skills. The groups
labeled in those ways had members whose day-to-day behavior exhibited
those negative traits.
Today I visited a gorge in New York
state. I clambered up a steep trail, with enough steps to be
daunting, to circle its rim, then back down (uh-oh, my glasses and
irregularly spaced steps going down are not a happy combination!),
finally walking along the trail at the lowest part of the gorge to
the most scenic spot overlooking an impressive waterfall.
There's a small viewing area (great,
more steps down) where three generations of an Asian family were
taking pictures of themselves in various combinations with the falls
as a background. It's hard to mind when two adorable little boys are
totally hamming it up for their grandparents.
After a while, though, it became easy
to be annoyed when this one group of six people had occupied the
vantage point fully, preventing others from viewing the falls or
taking their own pictures (unless they were willing to spoil the
pictures the family was taking by entering the frame), for fifteen
minutes. How many ways and combinations are there to pose five people
against a scenic background?
Yeah, I know. Not all Asians are this
selfish with scenic vista viewpoints, nor so obsessed with picture
taking. Of course they're not. The assumption is both ridiculous and ugly racism. But what I found more disturbing the
longer I thought about it was that while the hogging of the public
space for private picture-taking bothered me, worse was that they'll
return home only with pictures of themselves. Not one of them, not
even the kids, took a moment to turn and view this large waterfall
with the wonder and awe it deserved.